Pastor Ed Treat’s Books
The Lie That Kills Us: We All Have Elephants
“A deeply moving book about denial and recovery. It will help so many people.”
-Johan Hari, author of Chasing the Scream
We all have elephants.
An addiction.
A wound.
A truth we’ve trained ourselves not to see.
We tend to think of addiction as someone else’s problem—something that happens on the margins. But what if the real danger is closer to home? What if the most destructive force in our lives isn’t the substance—but the silence? The denial? The need to keep pretending?
In The Lie That Kills Us, pastor and recovery advocate Ed Treat offers a deeply personal and unflinchingly honest exploration of addiction, denial, trauma, faith, and the human patterns that keep us stuck.
Drawing from his own journey in long-term recovery, as well as decades of ministry experience, Treat reveals a powerful truth:
Addiction is not just about substances.
It is about how we cope with pain we don’t know how to face.
Blending story, theology, recovery wisdom, and psychological insight, this book uncovers the “elephants in the room” that shape our lives—individually, in families, in churches, and across our culture.
This is not a clinical manual.
It is an invitation.
An invitation to:
- name what we’ve been avoiding
- understand the roots beneath the behavior
- move from denial to honesty
- and discover the healing that becomes possible when we finally tell the truth
More at www.liethatkills.com.
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Faith Communities and Addiction Recovery: A Practical Guide for Faith and Community Leaders
Nearly every congregation is already touched by addiction. The question isn’t whether it’s present, it’s whether our response helps or harms.
Most pastors were never trained in addiction science, trauma response, or recovery systems. When someone struggling with substance use disorder shows up, or when a family comes to you in crisis, you need more than good intentions. You need practical tools, theological grounding, and the confidence that comes from understanding what you’re dealing with.
Faith Communities and Addiction Recovery is a field manual for pastors, faith leaders and other community leaders doing this work in real communities with real people. Across twelve modules, Rev. Dr. Edward Treat integrates addiction medicine, family systems theory, trauma-informed care, and Christian theology into a framework designed for immediate use. This isn’t theory, it’s tested in decades of ministry.
Topics include: understanding addiction as a chronic brain disease, theological foundations for recovery ministry, creating safe and supportive spaces, supporting families, crisis intervention, addressing stigma and shame, grief and relapse, mental health and co-occurring disorders, cultural competency, harm reduction, building sustainable ministry, and advocacy for systemic change.
Each module includes discussion questions for group study, practical action steps, and connections to national resources. Appendices provide screening tools, crisis protocols, sample forms, prayers and liturgical resources, and planning worksheets.
Ed Treat brings forty years of personal recovery, twenty-five years of pastoral ministry, and his work as Executive Director of the Center of Addiction & Faith to every page, not as an outside expert, but as someone who has lived this work from the inside.
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The Pastor
The Pastor is a novel about a small-town pastor who confronts a mystery surrounding the death of a member of his congregation. The main character, Pastor Brian Matterson, leads a community called All Saints Lutheran Church in Martin Valley, a suburb of Minneapolis.
Brian, a recovering alcoholic, is trying to handle various everyday challenges with good humor when tragedy strikes: A member of his congregation, Candy Vinter, has hanged herself in her family home.
When he visits the family he senses something secret underneath the surface of their grief. After police investigate further, Brian finds himself wondering if Candy killed herself of if she was murdered.
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Our Stories of Experience, Strength & Hope
The authors are ELCA & LCMS Lutheran clergy who tell their personal stories about alcoholism, addiction and codependency and how they discovered healing through the Twelve step program of recovery and the Fellowship of Recovering Lutheran Clergy.
Rev. Dr. Ed Treat is founder of the Center of Addiction & Faith and director of the Fellowship of Recovering Clergy. He’s been in long-term recovery for 40 years. After earning his M.Div. and D.Min. at Luther Seminary, he served congregations from 1995–2020, including a mission start. He wrote The Pastor (2017), Faith Communities and Addiction Recovery: A Practical Guide for Faith and Community Leaders (2026) and The Lie That Kills Us: We All Have Elephants (2026) a memoir-theology on addiction, denial and grace. His wife, Karen, is also a Lutheran pastor and they live in Woodbury, MN where they enjoy their four grown children and two grandchildren.